Dear Rita, answer me please.
I have been married for 15 years and I love my husband very much. He is a responsable person, an attentive, loving father... Works a lot. I am not currently working.
I have been feeling sad on these days because I have found him to be kind of rough, rude, sometimes with me, other times with my children. Why would that be? We are practicant religious people, but where is our discernment, our maturity, our respect? One of these days, when he came back from his job I tried to talk, but he was so rough, so rude, that I just went silent, without an answer and after that I just cried alone. Lately I have been trying to deal with it in the best way I can, to avoid great discussions, but this is not making me well. I have forgiven mistakes out of the love that I feel for him, I silence when I think I should, but something is still missing. I don’t know until when I will have to keep silent about things to avoid discussions, as I know that if I discuss I am gonna lose. One day we are well, we love each other, the other day it seems that never happened, he is taken by the tiredness and doesn’t talk in a nice way. I know that if I try to argue I will lose because he thinks he is always right. There are times when I feel like spending the whole day without talking, but I know this is not good. Maybe I am too controling... So I wonder if I am the problem. He is a very good person but I have been a bit controlling yes , but I am neither rough or rude in neither the words or in the attitudes. I became a bit controlling because of a mistake he made. I forgave the mistake. I love him so much. He is so handsome for me. He is so smart. What do you think that is happening? The excess work doesn’t give him the right to change in his attitudes.
Hugs.
(Sent by Sad Person)
Rita:
Dear Sad Person,
There are certain situations in life, when just trying to change and fix problems is not enough. These are the situations which, when facing them, you need to die and be born again.
Sometimes, the soul wants to go through such transformation, that it lays out some challenges in your life. And many people don’t have a body that is strong enough to endure this process and, for this reason, they end up dying of some kind of disease like a cancer or in an accident. Then the soul will be born again in another body, younger and more resistant, to keep evolving.
In other cases, the body is strong enough. It can bear the hardship because the strenght is in its genes then, in this instance, the soul doesn’t need to leave the body, it can continue its journey right there. However, the soul needs to breath a little, because as strong as the physical being can be, it becomes too heavy, with so much pain and with so many wounds, that the soul needs to lower its own vibration in order to stay there.
Then you start to feel you don’t have a soul anymore, that the superior power that used to inhabit in you, which would manifest itself in the form of faith and hope, is gone. And it is not that it is gone or has ceased to exist, but this power have got mixed with the lower vibration of your body, so you can’t notice it anymore.
And it is in this moment when you need to die, even if just for a second, with the purpose of letting your soul go away from this plan, go back to the Universe and elevate its vibration for then to come back to this same human structure, which is still capable of living,
That is when you will have been born again. You will no more be who you now believe that you are. You will have broken yourself free from the ideas that shaped your perception towards yourself, because your mind will have died.
And now you must be asking yourself how you can do this, to let the soul leave and return. Well, the answer is very simple: everyday, close your eyes, concentrate in yourself and imagine that this light leaves your body, which, in its turn, becomes like an empty shell, like a turtle shell without a turtle.
You will do this practice day after day, until the day when you will feel that all of this really happened. You will be being born again in the same body, but in a conscious way.
Several times, if the soul wants to be reborn where it already is and the individual doesn’t do it in a conscious way, the soul will procure other means in order for it to happen. For instance, a person can be hospitalized and might have to take a general anesthesia and this will be the time when the soul will go out to come back when that person wakes up from the anesthesia.
When someone goes through any experience very near to death, or in other words “almost dies”, you have the same case. The physical being is too tired and the soul needs to go to the surface to take a little bit of air.
Trying suicide taking pills is a semi-conscious attempt of making the soul leave and come back, because many times, deep inside, the person doesn’t want to die, but they instinctively feel that they need to do something to make the soul come out and come back all renewed.
But of course this is not the right approach, as in several cases the person ends up dying even if the body doesn’t need to, or then, having sequelaes.That is why the completelly conscious way is always the best one. It doesn’t make sense to injure your body to heal it.
Remember that the potential to manipulate your mind and your spirit is inside you. This is not the privilege of a few, as many believe, that just psychics, clairvoyants, monks, priests and healers can feel the spirit. That is just what one day someone made you believe.But, the truth is, that you not only have this power, but you are this power, as to be in harmony with the spirit is your essence.
Sad Person, in this moment your body is tired, wounded, without energies. But regardless of that, it still wants to live. However, it cannot live with this same mind, and neither with this soul so disminished in size and radiance. Give up, therefore, on wanting to change what is already there. Give up on trying to make this mind which is bewailing, to stop doing so. Instead of that, throw away this mind, get rid of it and achieve another one. And this will happen when your soul comes back to you in a higher frequency.
All the changes you want to witness taking place in your relationship will have the space to happen, you can be sure of that. All the evolution will happen because there is still life. There is still these two being desiring to live, triving to follow the same path of their ancestors.
Start from now seeing yourself with this renewed energy, which will shed light on every dark corner of your house. And all the rest will come to you. The transformation will arise in a natural and unobstructed flow, for evolving and growing in love is the destiny of all those who chose to live.
Love,
Rita Cascia
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